Today I saw a Walking Dead Macroimage, (Or I guess Meme if we want to be less correct but more clear but never mind that) that poked fun at how Rosita was dressed in the show and while the reasonable part of myself thought what she was wearing was kind of off kilter, I took note in the fact that a lot of the people who said she dressed like a hooker were female.
Now, for as much as people complain that there should be gender equality, and in this instance, that men shouldn’t judge a women by how she acts/dresses, I see a WHOLE lot of said judgment come from women as well, if not more so. I would suggest women get their act together and decide what they want to expect out of a society that INCLUDES AND IS A PART OF THEM Because for some reason, people do not understand the concept that they are part of the society that critiques themselves. We blame the media but where does the media look to in order to sell their product? we are as much the conductors of the train as we are the passengers.
The flag of Feminism doesn’t fly so high when women themselves can’t agree on a common goal and will call others sluts/hookers when dressed a certain way. I’ve seen it plenty of times and sometimes it feels like I have to constantly reconcile what I feel to be popular views of feminism (mostly because I frequent tumblr a lot) with girls I know IRL call another girl she saw on the street a slut because it LOOKED like she may have had sex the night before; and I’ve had several of these moments. But then again, suggesting something of the sort, as a male, might incite some sort of vague claim at Misogyny. le sigh.
If you have an opinion/want to put me in my place, please message me your take on this conundrum of diverse perspectives, I’m interested in what others have to say…
Date night with my two favorite guys
BEN AND JERRY
I’m so fucking alone
I’m not used to being loved. I wouldn’t know what to do; I never got the trick of it.
Down in the dumps, as they say. I am convinced I will be single and unsuccessful the rest of my life at this point. I need a major character reset right now.
As humans, we ruin everything we touch, including each other.
Generally when someone says they’re not interested in getting in a relationship at the moment, it generally means, you’re not what I’m looking for.
"we almost dated" is such a weird relationship to have with someone
Plus the sequel “we never got closure”
And then the side adaptation “as a result I have a weird crush that never died”